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SUZIE SWEETHEART
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How to attract & keep the female heart.
If you are a female.....go back you have come the wrong way..
...go back now.......very naughty
..........sirens sounding ...............sirens sounding
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OCTOBER EDITION
Some important information here boys...don’t let your females know this secret !!
Tip No. 30 HOW TO LET GO OF SELF SABOTAGING BELIEFS
Your females need you to be peaceful & confident (and thats only
for starters) Today I am going to tell you about the SEDONA METHOD....
You can be a very positive person but you will still be held
back from your full potential by self limiting subconscious
thoughts and beliefs which will detirmine your emotions,
feelings and ultimate outcomes.
Master this simple technique & you will find peace, joy & your potential
Emotions and feelings are not meant to be held in your mind forever where they will cause blockages to your peacefulness. Emotions like grief, fear, anger and yes...the good ones like happiness, enjoyment and the thrills of our senses are meant to pass through us from moment to moment....not to be replayed in our minds over and over like an addiction. Stop and think about that one.
But it is so hard to let go of these emotions when we replay them over and over.
Remember your feelings are not you.....they are only feelings. And you can let go of whatever you want that might be restricting your full potential.
It is actually very easy to let go. The fact is we have been replaying these things so often that we think thats how its got to be and we find comfort in holding onto beliefs ...even those that are self sabotaging. Google the Sedona Method for more information or wait till next month. ........From Suzie Sweetheart ........Don’t miss my Brother Syd’s Retirement Tip on the back
SEPTEMBER EDITION
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Some important information here boys...don’t let your females know this secret !!
Tip No. 29 HOW TO COMMUNICATE ON A FIRST DATE
First of all ensure your self esteem is up to scratch
Did you know that most female puppies on a first date are very laid back
in attitude.... like lets go out....I’ll get to know you....and we will see if this
goes anywhere.
NOT SO the male who is thinking......this could be the love of my life, my
future wife or maybe a one night stand !! Here he has got way in front of
himself. He has thrown his usual cool nature out of rhythm. Instead he has
lost control & appears nervous & acts freaky & shaky. The female senses this & naturally feels uncomfortable.
On a first date...NEVER ever in any part of your mind consider the female puppy as the potential love of your life.... ....Instead try this.
There is so much potential imcompatibility between people it is easy to assume that there is going to be something about her that is going to annoy you to ruin her chances with you !!
Pick up on some miniscule thing in a funny way & keep on it but in a funny way. Let her know she is ruining her chances but in a funny way !!
This will surprise her....... that you are acting the opposite to the `potential wife’ syndrome but rather that you are so comfortable around her that you can make fun of her and could not care less about what she thinks of you.
Now you are in a position to have a normal and enjoyable conversation without trying to impress her and generally giving the impression that you could not care less about how the event turns out. This will work for you & it will work for her.....From Suzie Sweetheart ..Don’t miss my Brother Syd’s Tips on the back
JULY EDITION
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How to Give Power that Power to Your Helpless Females
Did you know that if you do not love yourself then its impossible to love anyone else !!
This is not about egotistical self-love which is based on insecurity but self love that is
based on the beauty of our Universe.
Have you ever sat back and thought what a magnificent creation you are...
the complexity of your body and mind and how it all works !! Appreciating
this` magnificent you’ is a step towards `Unconditional Self Love. Taking this
almost unbelievably amazing `you’ for granted and giving yourself low
self worth.....renders you incapable of loving and helping your females.
WHY IS THIS SO ?? 1. Having low self esteem...means low self worth.
Valuing yourself lowly makes it impossible to value anyone else highly..
..because it is only possible to value others from your own base self valuation.
2. If you value yourself highly (without the ego) you can value others equally highly.
3.You might say look at all the love I give to my family in the way of sacrifice but sacrifice is only one form of love. Have you also passed on the low self esteem & the heartache that go with it like....negativity, self doubt, jealousy, the need to dominate and the rest.
4. People with low self esteem value everything around them lowly....need to keep changing things to impress others....put a high value on material things. When someone else takes a shine to one of their possessions they need that reassurance all the time and it is only then that they will revalue that item. That `item’ can be the people around them!!
If your females are buying new things that do not need replacing all the time this is a sign of low self esteem.....about 85% have it. If their looking at replacing you theres another sign that they have low self esteem.........you need to lift your value in their eyes and there is only one way to do that apart from recruiting another into your kennel !! Try an unconditional self-love program that you can easily find on the internet....this way you will be able to give more & power up the females in your kennels. .........From Suzie Sweetheart ........Don’t miss my Brother Syd’s Tips on the back page.
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Tip No. 27 POWERFUL OR PITYFUL
At the front door of the Gym the sign said you can be Powerful or Pityful...Your Choice !!
You see this was a special Gym that mainly very sick people went to.
If you feel that your strength is on the wane either through ill health, injury or ageing:
You need to do something before your females find out !!....because guess
who is going to start bossing you !!! Remember I told you the female loves to
boss if she can while you always aim to break even in the bossing
department....SHE MAY NOT. I am here to save you from the bossy female !!
So here is what you must do....to keep your top dog position at the kennel.
1. Go to the Gym......lift weights and you can measure how much stronger
you are each month. You actually have a measure of being more powerful
& this gives great confidence.
2. Go to the Gym....there are females there to add to your kennel....this will keep your main kennel paying attention
3. You can set up your own Gym...for about $500 !! or even pick up second hand Gym equipment from garage sales and the tip for next to nothing. Set yourself a program that you learnt at the Gym.
4. Learn a Martial Art....as above....new skills make you more powerful.
5. Get some male supplements...this will help also
6. Now do not go running unless its in your car...this is a waste of energy and does not increase your strength.
7 The aim is to get more powerful every day in a way that you can measure.
8. Learn how to meditate and visualise your goals and exactly how you want to be. All great sportsmen use the visualisation technique to achieve their goals.
9. Dont be afraid to have the odd strong black ale or rum...they are good tonics in moderation
Now if your females start suggesting you eat Ceylon Spinach......watch out !! ....this would be a sign you are going backwards.....best to get your own stock for down behind the shed. Its your choice power or pity. ..........From Suzie Sweetheart
Don’t miss my Brother Syd’s Tips on the back page.
FEBRUARY-MARCH EDITION
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Some important information here boys...don’t let your females know this secret !! Tip No. 25 TRY SYDS BREAK EVEN APPROACH TO KEEP YOUR FEMALES UNDER CONTROL Have you noticed with the female gender... the harder you try the less results you get !!.....Yes you say.... If you have noticed this you have not taken any notice of tips 1-25 !!!! GO BACK & STUDY. Last month Syd the punting Dog gave you the Tip of the Century when placing a bet. It was what he called `The Break Even Approach’...just aim to break even and watch the winners come in. This is the opposite to greed. If you are motivated by greed you will be looking only at the end result and not the meticulous path you are going to use to get there. If you are greedy in this way you will always lose.How does this help you master your female kennel you may ask ? 1.Firstly you should recognise that every dealing you have with the female is like having a bet on a filly at the races !! Of coarse you have a master plan (vision)....but the break even approach triggers your coolness when nature takes its own course !! 2. Every time you bet (deal) on her you should aim to only break even on that bet. If you do you will always win & so will she.
3. Why is this so? 4. The fact is ...if you are only focusing on a win for you....you are only looking at the end result and losing sight of the fun of how you get there..with all its methods & negotiations that may be necessary !! For example.....never give advice (unless you are paid for it)...because advice is like an order (you win)...it is better to say I think this ...what do you think ? ....Another.....if you want to add some female gender to your kennel.....dont even think of her as a `woman’...but be genuinly interested in her as a person. Another.....dont take anything for granted.....Another...Make sure she pays her own way.....but be surprisingly generous in other ways....You see always breaking even is always a good stategy because (you always have a master vision in the background) you will always win & so will she. .....Suzie Sweetheart
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DECEMBER EDITION
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Tip No. 23 HOW TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS
Goal Achievers are able to select Many Females in their Kennel !!
This one works in reverse for the female... so keep it quiet !!
Here are the 9 steps to goal achievement.
1.Buy yourself a notepad......Big step I know !!
2.Write down your 10 major goals you would passionately like to achieve.
At the bottom write down another 2 short term jobs you have been puttingoff.
3. In selecting your goals write down the first ones that come into your head..
..these are likely to be the ones coming from your intuition....the real you.
Never choose a negative goal & be specific eg rather than...I dont want this old kennel.....I want a bright new aircon kennel painted pink !!
4. Pick 2 goals every day.... & during the day & before you go to sleep ..relax & ask your mind....`How can II achieve.....whatever the goal is.....before sleeping only choose one. In the morning see if you have any answers that are obvious. If nothing is obvious don’t worry you will still be taking steps towards achieving your goals.
5. Everyday write down your goals again without referring to yesterdays....you might change some...or they might stay the same.
6. When you relax close your eyes and visualise your goal...play them out as if you are already there....having achieved it. Repeat as often as possible & with as much clarity & detail as you can muster.
7. If you are procrastinating ask your mind `How do i stop procrastinating on..`such & such goal’
8. You need to take `Action’ to achieve goals...don’t just wish.....please take action....
9. In 6 months time check on your original goals & you will be surprised at what you have achieved!!
............Suzie Sweetheart...... ....Don’t miss my brother Syds Tips on the back page...
OCTOBER EDITION
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Some important information here boys...don’t let your females know this secret !!Tip No. 22 HOW TO BE A COOL DUDE
Your Females expect you to be Cool & Lookout if you are Not
You see its in her inner psyche dating back thousands of years that the
man had to be cool under pressure to best protect her & the children.
Being cool is not the fake performance you often see teens putting on for
each other. Just like someone said last week `I gave up being cool....it was
too hard a work’ This is the real cool from your inner spirit
& here are four examples.
1.Being Independant....being able to lean back & make your decisions without
always seeking the approval of others.
2.Being Indifferent to outcomes & not being constantly fearful of what might happen. If something does go wrong it is taken in your stride & you make the best of it. If the outcome is super great thats no big deal either.
3. Being funny...this is important. Not all the time. Develop some funniness ..’cause life is meant to be fun.
4.Learn how to make others feel comfortable around you. Everyone ...because if you cant make your
everyday acquantances & friends feel great around you what hope have you with some special female puppy you would like to impress sooo much...............Suzie Sweetheart...
Don’t miss my brother Syds TRACK TIPS...
SEPTEMBER EDITION
Tip 22 HOW TO IMPRESS ANY FEMALE WITH YOUR SUCCESS
Did you Realise......Your focus becomes your reality. This includes everything you are, everything that you have, and the way people treat you. Can you believe that all the Good and all the Bad which is in your life now is there because you are using the power of your mind to create it? All those things that you Do and Don’t want are there because you have subconsciously chosen them !! But the moment you choose to stop accepting what you do not want, to stop thinking about these negatives in your life; to stop giving power to them and to stop giving away control to what you don’t want, this is the instant you start to move towards what you DO want.......................... It is that simple and now you know it, you too can use it. Just because it didn’t work last time, doesn’t mean it won’t work this time. Just because you don’t know every step in advance that you must take, doesn’t mean you can’t get started towards your dreams, right now. The answers will always come for the next step if you focus your mind on what you do want & not what you do not want. Did you know that the human mind was built to solve problems & to create new paths. ................Suzie Sweetheart... Don’t miss my brother Syds Tips on his racing page...
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Tip 21 DO YOU COMPLIMENT THE FEMALE WHEN YOU FIRST MEET UP .............Suzie Sweetheart SUZIE SWEETHEART.. .....MEN ONLY SECTION Tip 20 HOW TO GET THE COURAGE TO APPROACH ANY FEMALE MAY EDITION
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MARCH - APRIL EDITION
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Just because you are scared, doesn’t mean you don’t have the courage to make it happen.
Some important information here boys...don’t let your females know this secret !!
This is the age old question from you guys.
This may shock you but you always hear how girls love to be complimented.
This is a dead set trap ......now listen up. Yes the female likes to be
complimented by other girls & males she knows & trusts. But take the tip
if you compliment any female on the first or second or even third date...
do not do it !!! You will be tempted but once you say those fateful words
you will be consigned to the trash tin. You will put straight into the tip of
other early date complimenters....GONE..before you even got going.
You will have a rating of Minus 10 from which you can never come back.
Even too much admiring glancing is a putoff to the female puppy dog....so watch out for a sharp nip.
Why would this be so....you ask ? Well first of all believe it or not the female is an expert when it comes to relationships...so beware....you are the learner..... Secondly you have been immediately dumped in the sincerity stakes if you compliment too early. Thirdly you have given her power over you and you are no longer a challenge. Its must better to make a joke about her small feet or handbag whatever. Do not compliment this will stand you in good stead against all the insincere compliments she is bored with.
Of course the opposite is true of your special girl who knows you are sincere.
...Also see my brother Syds Racing Tips.
Some important information here boys...don’t let your females know this secret !!
YOU WISH TO.
Now you often tell me you are too scared to approach females. So you
need courage right !!
The first thing to know is that most females are shy creatures out to
protect themselves & keep safe. The more they appear the opposite the
more they are inclined this way...only putting on a front they have learnt for
their own protection.
Also the more a female wants to approach you...the more likely it is that
she won’t. There are exceptions to this like the really socialised female who has high self esteem & is friendly & approachable by anyone. This is the type Z female....quite rare....if you find her keep her as a friend...you are lucky !!
NOW to build courage to approach the other 99% you need to harden yourself to knockbacks ! Think of some `lame lines’ & practise approaching lots of females with it....`Now when you get the knockback....say to yourself `is that as bad as it gets....is that all it is’ do this 25 times & your incredible fear of knockbacks will disappear. Remember this is a numbers game....turn them over until you find the right ones for you.
...Also see my brother Syds Racing Tips. .............Suzie Sweetheart
Some important information here boys...don’t let your females know this secret !!
Tip 19 HOW TO USE KEYWORDS TO BUILD A CONVERSATION
WITH A STRANGER OR YOUR WIFE !!
Now you often ask me how to converse with a female so heres one easy
way to build a conversation with this species. Its called the key word
method.
First when you start a conversation you pick out the key words or
phrases from what the female says.
Then you repeat them in what you say.... then listen for new key words
in the next response.
Then finally you add a little something new into the conversation REPEATING the new key words you're using. This tells them you're listening, even though you're turning things around to put a funny slant on those words. You can keep them going for hours like this !!
Now if a person brings up something personal or whatever, they wouldn't have mentioned it if they didn't want to talk about it. So don’t be afraid to `key in’ if she brings it up....otherwise stay well clear.
...Also see my brother Syds Racing Tips on the back page. .............Suzie Sweetheart
Do not let your females see this one boys because I am about to
bring you some sad news..
Tip 18 THE SHOCKING TRUTH ABOUT BEER !!
Have you ever noticed how men grow quite wide around the midsection
when then they have a good daily dose of beer...yes. OK and have
you noticed how `man-boobs’ also develop.....yes this is common also.
Now guess what this is similar to boys ? Think about it......
You got it....this is similar to a `pregnant woman’ !....only there is nothing
beautiful about it. You see pregnant women put on extra fat in the
mid-section to protect their baby & their bust grows to produce milk for
nurturing the baby.
Now why does drinking beer make your body react like a pregnant woman ?
This is the killer It is because the hops from which beer is made produces compounds that are female hormone precursers or so close to it that they mimick these hormones.
Yes your body will produce more female hormones & behave like you are pregnant....at least to some extent.
So it would be a good idea to measure how many beers you drink with how much feminity you would like to present !! So sorry......
...Also see my brother Syds Racing Tips on the back page. .............Suzie Sweetheart
FEBRUARY-MARCH EDITION
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Listen up you puppies..today I am going to give you a new four
letter word you could add to your vocabulary that will help you in
many tricky situations.
Tip 17 THE POWER OF A FOUR LETTER WORD
Before I give you the magic word these are the situations.
1. When you have failed.
2. When you have success.
3. How to look after your very best friends.
OK the Four Letter Word is `NEXT’
Let this word accompany you everywhere.
1. When you have failed. If you think to yourself for example `that was a stupid thing to do’ your subconscious will think this over iintensely & tell you all the other things you have been stupid at. However If you think `what will I do `next’ to turn this failure around ‘your sub conscious will soon work out a new path for you.
This is what the subconscious does for you - its more powerful than any computer....it will think laterally using all your accumulated knowledge & come up with answers to your most frequent thoughts. The answer it comes up with might be what is called `intuition’ or it might be a feeling......or a conclusion or an epithany or a vision..or a passion .whatever...you should trust your sub-conscious to deliver for you
2. When you have Success.....the common human reaction is to think `I do not deserve this’....and guilt feelings emerge because your subconscious will work out all the reasons why you don’t deserve it. If you think what will I do `next’ to continue my success’...your subconscious will work out for you what to do next to continue your success.
3. With your Nearest Friends....we do not have many true friends in our lives & they would probably do anything for you. This is a prescious thing that needs to be nurtured. Whether you have a success or a failure with your nearest friends it is always a good idea to think what will I do` next’ for that person.
So boys ...unleash the smartest friend you have—your subconscious mind—by focusing it on what you want to find around the` next’ corner.
..Also see my brother Syds Racing Tips on his own page. .............
Suzie Sweetheart
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So now you have discovered all you need to know about attracting
& keeping your females. Some of you have done too well & you
have more than you can handle.........its the age old problem of too many females in one kennel !!
This brings me to todays topic.
I call it `How Fear will bring you exactly what you do not want”
Tip 16 THE LAW OF ATTRACTION & FEAR
The law of attraction states simply that you will achieve in life whatever
your most predominant thoughts are. This truth has been known for
centuries & was quoted in the Bible....so its not something new. Ask any high achiever how they got to their top level staus in their profession & you will find it was predominant in their thought processes right from their early years. Often the thought started by simply copying their parents or friend or they may have been inspired by other processes. But its never too late.
Another FACT is that thoughts turn into actions that turns into achievement.... that results in receiving THINGS that could be physical, spiritual or emotional. Yes thoughts turn into THINGS. But its not magic because you have to take the ACTIONS.
In the same way if your thoughts are full of fear......guess what you will get......you will achieve exactly what you are fearing.....and when you get it your fears will be reinforced in your mind....& you will think I knew that would happen !! So when you ask that girl to dance the fearful puppy would say I knew she would knock me back while the positive thinker knows there are 100 girls there & theres always one who will be silly enough to dance with me !!
Every negative fear you have can be replaced by 100 positive opportunities....one knockback does not make your life. Every achiever gets to their high level by accepting & learning from the knockbacks & moving onto the next possibility. There are many books & techniques about facing fears including self hypnosis & meditation. The thing is to convert fears into positive thoughts....to find great THINGS.
...Also see my brother Syds Racing Tips
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OK you have been practising humour, mr cool, meditation, being
`with her’..even when you can’t be physically, empathy, mystery,
surprises & not being a wuss too often. Now you know the mental
side.....but only part 1 ie Mental Side....self esteem.
...MEN ONLY HERE !! ...men only !!.....men only, you !!!
Mental Side Part 2 is also very important !!! SORRY !!
You need to keep studying !!! If you want to keep your female puppy
attracted you need to perform on the Mental Side Part 2 as well.
I call it the `Law of wanting what you cannot have’
Tip 16 THE LAW OF WANTING WHAT YOU CANNOT HAVE
This law applies to all sexes & all facets of life but in attracting & keeping your female puppy it permeates through many phases especially the initial contact, day to day stuff....even the physical side. And this Law plays a part to relationships that are more established. A lot of it is about emotional teasing.
Let me give you a blatant example that can be applied to many other types of contact.
Your puppy is there with you..very alluring....just waiting to be` handled’ you think....BUT do not go `the grope’....she is ready for that & trained over the last 10,000 years....instead just do a very gentle touch on her hand ....then step back 2 paces. Thats it always one step forward 2 paces back & do it over hours or days. Create the illusion that you are something she cannot have instantly....this will make her wish for more. Never use the `love ‘ word unless you have known her for 10 years or more..... Do something romantic & then move 2 steps back like tell a funny story....tell a serious story. Let her know you are in control (at least some of the time).....like when she says we will sit over here....you say...no over there is better.....she says go this way....you say no we should go that way. Do not give way to all her choices. Do not give her presents all the time....let her buy some meals....take her for a picnic not the grand restaurant. If you give, give, give she will lose her attraction for you because she has got you `lock stock & barrell’... & the female puppy wants what she cannot have NOT what she’s got.
...Also see my brother Syds Racing Tips .............Suzie Sweetheart